To make a long story short.. I planted this from it former spot on my porch using the "With pot" method. Years later,I realized I took it TOO literal..not having slit the pot,or enlarge holes,etc. Now,I have a bottle Howea much smaller all around then a big one in my backyard. The rings on this guy are miniscule too. Can I bring it back to normal? Normal big fronds, normal trunk?